Does Maryjane Make A Good Sex Partner?

Some cultures regard pot as a potent aphrodisiac-in North America, it has a rep as a boner-killer

Marijuana has been used as an aphrodisiac for thousands of years. The ancient Indian Ayurvedic medicine systems used cannabis to increase libido, produce long-lasting erections, delay ejaculation, facilitate lubrication, and loosen inhibitions.

Some Tantric sex practitioners drink a substance called bhang, a sort of spiced marijuana milkshake to enhance the sexual experience. According to one source, Indian prostitutes eat bhang sherbet to help them feel sexually aroused.

 In 19th-century Serbia, female virgins were given mixtures of lamb’s fat and cannabis on their wedding night to make sex less painful. Morocco, Egypt, Lebanon, and other Middle Eastern and Northern African cultures used cannabis for sexual purposes in a potent form known at kif as recently as the early 20th century.

So what exactly is it about weed that turns people on?

Besides the obvious — it heightens your senses, relaxes you, and makes you feel hyper-connected — there are also physiological effects. Along with an increased heart rate, changes in blood flow and respiration, William Novak, author of the 1980 tome High Culture: Marijuana in the Lives of Americans, says, “Neurochemistry, hormonal systems, and brain regions such as the temporal lobe are affected by both marijuana and sexual arousal.”

That’s because THC (delta-9-Tetra-hydrocannabinol), the active ingredient in pot, not only releases dopamine in the brain — thereby causing the “high” — it also replicates the effects of a sexy little naturally occurring neurochemical called anandamide.

But pot doesn’t always make sex better. For some people, it has the exact opposite effect. Which is helpful if you’re a monk. Ascetics and monks have used marijuana to free themselves of sexual desire. Instead of connecting them to their bodies’ sexual desires, or other people, it helps them meditate. In the context of a sexual encounter, it can be tough to focus on making your partner come when your mind is busy contemplating the meaning of life. Or if being high makes you suddenly hyperaware of everything wrong with your relationship.

The effects of smoking also depend on the person’s tolerance for the drug — a couple of tokes may get one person in the mood while another user may need to get really high in order to feel that heightened sexual awareness.

Of course, when it comes to pot, you can have too much of a good thing. Heavy, long-term marijuana use can result in low motivation — including the motivation to have sex. And whereas some folks report an increased libido — in one study, men said they achieved bigger, harder erections and women said they became wetter and were more able to achieve orgasm when stoned — others may report an inability to sustain an erection.

It is commonly believed that smoking marijuana causes reproductive system damage, and has a deleterious effect on the production of testosterone and other hormones — which in turn can affect fertility, menstruation, and erectile dysfunction, among other things. Pot prohibitionists like to haul out the “pot will lower your sperm count” argument, though studies on this subject have produced conflicting results.

It is true that the cells of the reproductive system are very high in fat, and thus absorb and hold more THC than most other cells in the body, a factor that has led some researchers to believe pot can lower testosterone levels. Apparently, in some cases, male pot smokers have developed man boobs because of localized fatty deposits.

Still, according to Novak, “There have been no epidemiological studies which have shown increased infertility in marijuana-using humans, and studies of overall reproductive rates have found no reduction in reproductive rates in countries where a higher rate of marijuana use is found.”

And the National Organization for the Reform of Marijuana Laws (NORML) cites study upon study indicating that reported lower sperm levels return to normal once marijuana consumption ceases.

So put that in your pipe and smoke it.


Comments: 7

Budd wrote:

A well written article except for the part about Marijuana causing amotivational issues. This is a myth that has been parroted for decades ever since the prohibitionists decided to stop claiming it would instantly drive you to insanity and made you a communist. Does Obama look like he has no motivation? What about the two presidents before him? What about Marc Emery? Michael Phelps?

I haven't even touched the music or entertainment industries. Don't make me go there. I just don't have that much time.

on Apr 10th, 2009 at 7:15am Report Abuse

daffner wrote:

While marijuana is responsible for many great sexual encounters, it is also possible to enjoy amazing experiences without it, even on a daily basis. That seemed so important to me that I actually wrote a book about it and teach other couples! If interested, see:
http://www.TantricSexforBusyCouples.com

Thanks for a frank and thorough look at the MJ + sex question.

Diana Daffner
http://www.IntimacyRetreats.com

on Apr 17th, 2009 at 9:56am Report Abuse

Serius wrote:

To even take have an opinion one must be able to ingest some variation of a marijuana product but what if one could not my exerience with maryJane has never been a good one quite the opposite infact. So Am I missing out on something :unknown to have sex requires a partner something I lack. Funny I know but as I comment earlier I am First Nations most women avoid me on basis quiet rumors of abuse and alcoholism but Im drifting. Sorry. And for motivational issues How do we even know if Obama Doesn't smoke MJ. Maybe he does how do we know...

on Apr 26th, 2009 at 10:01am Report Abuse

nessmuk wrote:

Serius....seriously, dude....go to Shell Shock and find out how to make the butter.

chriss

on Apr 27th, 2009 at 3:26pm Report Abuse

Serius wrote:

LoL sounds fun nessmuk! I'll check it out!

on Apr 29th, 2009 at 12:49pm Report Abuse

casualencounters wrote:

Whenever I get stoned I just want to read comic books and write poetry. Sexy it is not. http://casualencounters.com/blog/

on May 20th, 2009 at 7:10pm Report Abuse

Anonymous wrote:

I can't help but notice, though, everyone, that you declined to identify yourself by your real names, which seems like a cowardly thing to do on a comment as personally directed as these ones. Whatever you think Diana Daffner's faults may be — and I think it's worth emphasizing that the point of her book is to speak to couples and talk about great sexual encounters — at least she has the courage to attach her own names to what she writes.

on May 24th, 2009 at 2:32pm Report Abuse


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